Are you one of those women who spend Friday nights at home on your
couch with your remote control switching one channel to another and
wondering why you are home while girls your age are out there dating
their prince charming? Do you want to be more successful with men
and get the kind of relationship you’ve always wanted with the right
man? The following tips can be very helpful if you want success with
men.
Have that positive attitude. To be more successful with men,
you have to posses that positive attitude. Have you been around someone
who has that positive aura that even if he or she is not the most
physically attractive person in the room, the positive aura makes that
person so irresistible? A person like that is like a fresh breath of
air. By being positive, funny and cool, you are attracting people
(including men) and giving them an experience that they want to have
over and over again. If you are a positive person, you can bring out the
best in people even in bad situations and that is very admirable. You
usually do not just react but you choose to be proactive. Instead of
complaining, you often focus on the solution and create a positive
energy to make a bad situation better. It is easier for a woman with
positive attitude to be more successful with men than those who are so negative.
Have that confidence. Confidence and success goes hand and hand so if you want to be more successful with men,
you must have that confidence. People who lack confidence usually does
not grab the opportunities presented to them and let those
opportunities passed them by. In a room filled with people, a person
with low self-esteem usually stays in one corner of the room letting the
opportunity to meet someone great just passed her by or she just stays
with her usual group and does not explore the possibilities of meeting
other people outside her group. If you really want to be more
successful with men, have the confidence to grab the opportunity to meet
new people. If you are a naturally shy person, confidence is not
something that will happen overnight but by taking baby steps and
constant practice you will learn how to be more confident. Good
grooming, good posture, the way you talk or converse and the way you
carry yourself are all part of building your confidence and all of these
can be learned. Overtime, you can overcome your shyness and be more
confident and more secure with yourself. When this happens, you are
giving yourself the chance to be more successful with men.
Do not compare yourself to other women. One thing
that could prevent you from having success with men is the habit of
comparing yourself to other women. If you want to be more successful
with men, stop saying she’s fairer, flawless, more beautiful, sexier,
smarter, that is why men are drooling over her.” If you want to be more
successful with men, this kind of attitude or thinking is not helpful
because it will just make you feel inferior. There will always be people
more beautiful, sexier and gorgeous than you but the most important
thing is accepting yourself who you really are and you are confident
that you have unique qualities that make you stand out from the rest. It
is easier to be more successful in men when you become more at ease
with who you really are and accepted that you are a unique person with
unique qualities.
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